A normal question, asked calmly
You may well have felt that slight awkwardness on a school visit. The campus is beautiful, the welcome warm, and you hesitate to ask THE question: "And in concrete terms, how do you protect the pupils?" You're afraid of seeming mistrustful, or of casting a chill.
Rest assured: that question is perfectly normal. Safeguarding (the protection of minors in the broad sense: to prevent, to notice, to respond) is part of the ordinary running of a boarding school, just like meals or evening prep. A school that welcomes international families should expect you to raise it, and be ready to answer.
What parents often lack isn't the courage to ask, it's the right wording — and above all, the way to read the answer. That's what this article is about. We'll look at why precision matters more than tone, at what the reference frameworks do and don't say, then go through seven families of questions, from staff vetting to the rules on devices. We'll then see how to tell a precise answer from a vague one. Finally, we'll give you MSH Advisory's five practical tips.
A word on scope. In our guide to choosing a boarding school in Switzerland, safeguarding is one of the criteria to weigh, alongside the curriculum, campus life or logistics. And our article on a school's logos explains the difference between an accreditation and a membership, and what each does and doesn't attest to. We won't revisit those two topics here. Here, we move on to the next step: the conversation with the school.
Safety is a foundation, not a selling point
Let's set the frame straight away. Safeguarding isn't a premium option, nor an added "extra" a school might offer out of generosity. It's the foundation on which everything else rests. A school shouldn't be selling it to you, and you shouldn't have to negotiate for it.
Another important point: no school can promise you zero risk. No shared living environment can — not a boarding school, not a sports club, not a summer camp. What sets a well-run school apart isn't the claimed absence of any problem. It's the existence of a clear procedure, known to all, and actually applied.
In practice, this shows in simple things: a written policy you can consult, a designated person pupils know to identify, steps every adult is aware of. A school's composure comes from its preparation, not from its promises.
What CIS and COBIS say, and what they don't
If the school you're looking at is linked to CIS (Council of International Schools) or COBIS (Council of British International Schools), it's worth knowing that both bodies devote a page to the question: CIS under the heading of child protection and well-being, COBIS under the heading of safeguarding. These pages describe their own expectations of the schools they work with: accreditation, on the CIS side; membership, on the COBIS side.
That's a useful marker, and an interesting read before a visit. But keep two nuances in mind. First, a school's exact status (plain member or accredited school) is to be checked with the body itself, not on the school's home page. Second, a reference framework describes principles; it doesn't tell you how the school you're visiting applies them day to day, on weekdays as at weekends. For that, you have to ask.
This guide doesn't replace that check with the body concerned (CIS or COBIS), nor the direct exchange with the school: it simply helps you prepare for it.
And in Switzerland: a question of canton
In Switzerland, the framework for overseeing private schools and the organisation of child protection vary from canton to canton. Rather than trying to master these frameworks yourself, remember that they're among the topics an attentive school should be able to explain to you. Two questions to add to your list:
- Which cantonal authority oversees the school, and how does the school coordinate with it when a concern is reported?
- In what cases does the school report a situation externally, to the competent authorities, and who makes that decision?
A clear answer names the authority, the person who makes the link within the school, and the broad steps. If the person you're speaking to doesn't know on the spot, ask them to reply to you in writing.
We can already hear you say: "But I'm not an expert — how will I know whether the answer is a good one?" You don't need to be an expert. You need precise questions. The rest of this article takes care of that.
Seven families of questions to ask
No need to ask everything at once. Choose the questions that matter most for your child, and keep the others for a written exchange.
1. Staff recruitment
It all starts with the adults around your child day to day: teachers, houseparents (the resident adults in charge of a boarding house), evening staff, outside providers, drivers.
- How do you check the backgrounds and references of the people you recruit?
- Do these checks also cover occasional providers, sports coaches, weekend activity staff?
- Who, within the school, is responsible for these checks?
What you're looking for: a description of steps, and confirmation that all adults in contact with pupils are covered, not only teachers.
2. Staff training
A written policy is only worth something if the adults know it.
- Are staff trained in pupil protection? At what point in the year, and how often?
- Does the training also cover non-teaching staff?
- How are newcomers who join mid-year trained?
3. The designated safeguarding lead
In a well-organised setting, someone is named as responsible for pupil protection. Depending on the school, this person goes by different titles (child protection officer, head of safeguarding, safeguarding lead…); what matters is that a role is named.
- Who is the designated person for pupil protection? Do they have a deputy?
- Do pupils know who it is, and how to reach them?
- Can we, as parents, meet them or write to them?
A school that answers you with a job title, a clear role and a way to make contact is already giving you a great deal of information.
4. The procedure when there's a concern
This is the central question, and often the most revealing.
- What actually happens when a pupil, an adult or a parent raises a concern?
- Who is informed, in what order, and within what timeframe?
- Is the procedure written down? Can we consult it?
Don't expect the school to tell you about specific past situations: the confidentiality owed to pupils prevents it, and that's normal. What you're asking about is how things work, not the cases themselves.
5. A trusted adult for your child
At boarding school, your child is surrounded by many adults: houseparents, teachers, the health centre, counsellors. But they still need to know who to turn to, including outside their own house.
- Who can a pupil talk to if they feel unwell, or if they're uncomfortable with an adult in their own house?
- Is there someone outside the usual chain (the health centre, a counsellor, another adult they can rely on)?
- How are pupils told about this, especially new arrivals and those whose first language isn't the language of instruction?
This last point matters particularly for an international family: a child who still has limited command of the language must be able to make themselves understood, and know how.
6. Communicating with parents
If you live abroad, this is often the question that concerns you most. Distance changes nothing about the school's arrangements, but it changes how you're kept informed: better, then, to make things clear from the outset.
Timing and channels
- In what situations do you inform us, and through which channel (phone, email, the school's platform)?
- Outside particular situations, how often do we hear news of our child, and from whom?
- Can we agree on a regular check-in with the person who looks after our child day to day?
The language of exchanges
- In what language does the school communicate with families, in writing and in person?
- In a sensitive situation, can we communicate in a language we fully master?
Emergencies, whatever the time zone
- Who do we reach in an emergency, day or night, and by what means?
- How does the school contact us if we're unreachable because of the time difference? Who is called next?
- If our child has a local guardian (guardian, the adult who represents you on the ground during the year), how does the school fit their role together with ours?
For families at a distance, the question of the local guardian is worth anticipating; it's one of the points our concierge service handles.
7. Evenings, bedrooms and devices
This is where boarding differs from day school: the day doesn't stop when lessons end.
- Evenings and weekends: how many adults are present in each house in the evening and at night? How are authorised weekend trips out of school — exeats (authorised weekend leave) — organised?
- Bedrooms: how are rooms allocated (age, gender)? What rules govern access to floors and bedrooms, for pupils as for adults?
- Devices: what rules apply to phones in the evening? Is the school's network filtered? How does the school make pupils aware of online risks, and what does it do if a problem arises on a social network?
There's nothing intrusive about these questions. They simply describe the life your child will lead each weekday evening, and at weekends depending on the boarding arrangement, full or weekly.
For the practical detail of leave and outings — who says yes, by when, in whose home, and where the child stays when campus closes — see our article on reading a Swiss boarding school's rules.
How to read the answers: precise or vague?
Once the question is asked, what matters most plays out in the answer. Here's a simple grid for reading it. The wordings below are illustrative examples, written by us: they aren't taken from any real school and don't describe a reference practice.
| Topic | A precise answer might sound like… (illustrative example) | A vague answer might sound like… |
|---|---|---|
| Recruitment | "Here are the vetting steps; they apply to any adult in contact with pupils, including outside providers." | "We only recruit people we trust." |
| Safeguarding lead | "The designated person is our head of boarding; their deputy is the head of the secondary school. Here's how to reach them." | "Everyone here looks out for the pupils." |
| Procedure | "Any concern goes to the designated person the same day; the written procedure is available." | "That sort of thing doesn't happen here." |
| Parents | "You're informed by phone and then in writing; here's your point of contact." | "We're very close to our families." |
| Devices | "Phones are handed to adults at a set time depending on age; the network is filtered." | "We trust our pupils." |
Keep in mind three markers of a solid answer: it names a role, it describes a step, it points to a document. A warm but general answer isn't a bad answer in itself; it's simply incomplete.
And if the answer stays vague? That doesn't necessarily mean there's a problem: the person you're speaking to may not be the right one, or the question was asked too quickly, during the visit. Simply follow up in writing, putting your question word for word, and ask who to address it to. An attentive school should then point you to the right person.
A final word on what should surprise you rather than reassure you: a promise of zero risk, a lasting reluctance to provide a written policy, or an answer that treats your questions as mistrust. Conversely, a school that tells you "good question, here's how we do it" is already showing you something of its culture.
And where does your child fit in?
These questions are for you, the parents, to ask. Your child doesn't have to carry out this enquiry, nor to shoulder this responsibility.
You can, on the other hand, talk to them simply, without drama, about what you've learnt: who the adult to turn to is, how to reach you, and that they have the right to speak up about anything that's wrong. The aim isn't to worry them, but for them to know that the arrangement exists and that it's there for them.
MSH Advisory's five practical tips
- Read before you visit. If the school publishes its safeguarding policy on its site, skim it; if it's linked to CIS or COBIS, take a look at their page on the question. You'll arrive with sharper questions.
- Pick three priority questions. No need to ask everything on a visit. For example: the designated safeguarding lead, the procedure when there's a concern, evening supervision. The rest can go by email.
- Ask your questions in writing, as well as in person. A written answer can be reread, compared and kept. It's also the simplest format for a family living far away.
- Compare the answers, not the tone. For each school, note whether the answer names a role, describes a step and points to a document. Set side by side, these elements speak for themselves.
- Keep safeguarding in its proper place. It's a foundation to check, not the criterion that chooses the school for you. Once that foundation is confirmed, come back to the essentials: the school's fit with your child, its curriculum, its campus life.
Frequently asked questions
What is safeguarding in a boarding school?
Safeguarding is the set of measures a school puts in place to protect its pupils who are minors and look after their wellbeing: to prevent risks, to notice when something is wrong, and to respond according to a procedure everyone knows. In a boarding school it also covers life outside lessons: evenings, bedrooms, weekends, use of devices. It is a normal foundation of how a school works, not a selling point.
What questions should I ask a boarding school about safeguarding?
The most useful ones are concrete: how the school checks the backgrounds and references of its staff, how and how often it trains them, who the designated safeguarding lead is, what happens when a concern is raised, which trusted adult the child can turn to, when and how parents are informed, and what rules govern evenings, bedrooms and devices.
How do I tell a good answer from a vague one on safeguarding?
A solid answer names a role, describes a step, points to a written document and says who does what. A vague answer stays general ("we're one big family", "that doesn't happen here") without describing how things actually work. A vague answer isn't necessarily the sign of a problem: follow up in writing, putting your question again, precisely.
Does an accreditation (CIS) or a membership (COBIS) guarantee a school's safeguarding?
CIS and COBIS each devote a page to child protection and safeguarding, which describes their own expectations of schools. Being a member or an accredited school is therefore a useful signal, to be checked with the body itself. It does not replace your own questions about how the particular school applies these principles day to day, especially in the evenings and at weekends.
Can a school promise that no incident will ever happen?
No, and an attentive school shouldn't promise it. No shared living environment carries zero risk. What matters is that the school has a clear procedure, known to pupils, staff and families, and that it knows how to apply it. A school that explains how it responds is more reassuring than one that claims nothing can happen.
In summary: good questions, readable answers
We've seen together that safeguarding is a normal foundation, that no one can promise zero risk, and that the quality of an arrangement shows in the precision of the answers: a role named, a step described, a document available. Recruitment, training, the designated safeguarding lead, the procedure, a trusted adult, communicating with families, evenings and devices, not forgetting coordination with the cantonal authority: you now have a full framework for leading the conversation.
Our role isn't to sell you a school, but to help you ask these questions and read the answers with perspective. If you'd like an independent view to compare the answers you receive, school by school, our private educational advisory is there for that, and you can write to us in full confidence.
A question asked calmly is worth more than many brochures. Over to you.
Official sources (accessed 2026-10-09)
- Council of International Schools (CIS), "Child Protection and Well-being": https://www.cois.org/for-schools/child-protection-and-well-being (accessed 2026-10-09)
- Council of British International Schools (COBIS), "Safeguarding": https://www.cobis.org.uk/safeguarding (accessed 2026-10-09)
The expectations of CIS and COBIS are a matter for each body, and a school's status (plain member or accredited school) is to be confirmed with it. A school's safeguarding policy and how it is applied are to be checked directly with the establishment concerned.



